Today, I picked up my mother (93) and my Aunt Mary (96) from their volunteer work counting the Sunday collection at their church. I drove around the block to my aunt's house.
"Don't get out!" Aunt Mary insisted. "Your mother can help me to the door."
I listen to my elders. I stayed in the car. I watched as my mother supported her big sister, step by step, up the walk. Two old women, gray and slow, side by side, walked together, as I imagine they have walked their entire lives.
I feel privileged to have seen the abiding sisterly love between them. It's unspoken.
Then, having delivered her sister safely to her home, my mother made her way, more quickly and surely back to the car. I drove her to her home where we wrestled empty recycling bins back into their places in the carport.
It is Fall. We notice the empty places in our garden. We anticipate shorter days, colder nights and darkness. We look forward to loss and if we can stretch our imagination, to the growth that covers the bare spaces.
Still, today is a good day because, for now, I still can watch these two sisters walk together.
Love love love!!!!
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